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04/18/07

Accepting Special Needs Kids: Crowned at the Prom

Posted by : Julie in Parenting Children with Special Needs Blog at 07:03 am , 338 words, 292 views  
Categories: In The News
In my current cynical state, few things can bring me to tears. While I’m watching with amazement and horror at the Virginia Tech tragedy, I have to admit those reports in this morning’s paper did not bring a tear to my eyes the way this one did: Friends Make Teen Feel Like Royalty. Out of South Georgia, a place I had long thought of as stereotypically backward when it came to special needs students (Sorry Cindy on Older Child blog, it’s just what I thought), came this story. Melanie Barrett, a girl with Downs Syndrome who had also survived leukemia had always dreamed of being the prom queen. In fact, she had announced she was going to be for several years.

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Melanie, a beloved student at Pierce County High School, went to the prom last year as a junior only to be crushed that she wasn’t even nominated. This year, however, things were different.

Melanie asked Stephen Wall to be her date. Stephen was adopted at two days old and diagnosed with cerebral palsy at six months. Ok, now I was hooked on this story.

You can start to guess the rest, right? Melanie and Stephen show up at the prom, dressed exquisitely in a sky blue gown and a black tux, respectively. At midnight, the announcer began announcing the nominated princes and princesses of the prom court. Melanie and Stephen had been nominated, but their names were not called. Melanie’s mom Carol was sure this was an oversight.

Then the announcer called their names as king and queen, making this girl’s childhood dream a reality. Yes, I’m a sap for a story like this…yes I’m crying!

But the tears really started to flow when the reporter added that “Out of 180 seniors, only seven had not voted in their favor.”

Talk about restoring a mom’s faith in humanity! Thank you Pierce County High School!

Check out another news story that brought me to tears.

Photo by Steve Jeffords

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Comment from: nancyderen [Member] Email
Just reading your description made me cry! My faith in human nature is reaffirmed when I hear about situations like this when kids with Down syndrome and CP are given the opportunities for experiences like this. At the same time, it makes me sad that kids still aren't taught as much about kindness to kids with invisible or less visible disabilities, and in so many cases, aer cruel to kids even when they know very well that there is a disability, because the disability isn't Down's or one of the others that they've been specifically taught to be kind about. This is why my daughter will never attend a public school prom, let alone be queen! On the plus side, her disability is clear enough that the police in town are very sympathetic every time I need to call them! They'll even say sadly, "We just saw her out riding her bike with a big smile on her face- it's so sad to see her like this!" But some kids don't even get that kind of understanding.
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Comment from: Julie [Member] Email · http://special-needs.adoptionblogs.com/
Nancy,

I'm with ya! LuLu's disabilities are invisible too, and totally misunderstood. I KNOW she will never have the joys my other children have...the awards, the honors, the fulfillment of simple dreams, like being a QUEEN!

The war to advocate for our children is far from over...it's just nice to hear when someone wins a battle every once in a while!
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Comment from: Coley S. [Member] Email · http://open.adoptionblogs.com
Such an awesome story! Thank you for sharing it! It makes this mom of a special needs kiddo cry too!
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