Comments on: Anger Can Increase an Adopted Child’s Passive Aggressiveness http://special-needs.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/anger-can-increase-an-adopted-child-s-pa-1 Contains information on various special needs from the unique perspective of the adoptive parents of special children. Thu, 15 Oct 2009 23:27:18 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: chicago hypno http://special-needs.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/anger-can-increase-an-adopted-child-s-pa-1/comment-page-1#comment-1296 chicago hypno Mon, 30 Jun 2008 02:58:27 +0000 http://parenting-sp.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/05/15/anger-can-increase-an-adopted-child-s-pa-1#comment-1296 I really agree with this posters comments. In short, I think what the author is saying is to take what psychotherapist would dub-Authoratative stance. This means basically make the child apart of the process when using disipline. Use the time out procedure but also talk to the child about why his or her behavior was wrong in the first place. It's also a good idea to give a child choice. For example- Let's say you are late for a movie and the child just won't pick up his or her toys. Simply say, okay- Pick your toys up when you want, I'll be waiting out side. By taking this action you are allowing the child to think for themselves. A child who is always being told exactly what to do develops low self esteem. I use the in my own practice during hypnosis <br /> http://www.edgewaterhypnosis.com<br /> <br /> Good post I really agree with this posters comments. In short, I think what the author is saying is to take what psychotherapist would dub-Authoratative stance. This means basically make the child apart of the process when using disipline. Use the time out procedure but also talk to the child about why his or her behavior was wrong in the first place. It’s also a good idea to give a child choice. For example- Let’s say you are late for a movie and the child just won’t pick up his or her toys. Simply say, okay- Pick your toys up when you want, I’ll be waiting out side. By taking this action you are allowing the child to think for themselves. A child who is always being told exactly what to do develops low self esteem. I use the in my own practice during hypnosis
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