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08/21/07

I Take Child Abuse Allegations Very Seriously…But

Posted by : Julie in Parenting Children with Special Needs Blog at 10:12 pm , 417 words, 193 views  
Categories: In The News

Something just doesn’t add up in this report today, coming out of Athens, Georgia, home of the University of Georgia. Seems a university math professor was arrested during an IEP meeting last week for making threats against the school personnel in the meeting. Hmmm…not having a hard time imagining what would push a parent to such an outburst.

Now the paper reports that this professor had previously been investigated for child abuse. Hmmm…again. A quick read of the article works up immediately concern for the 17-year-old’s safety, and empathy for the school officials for having to deal with such a madman. The dad was still in jail as of last night.

But could there be more to the story? Having been kicked around by a school system in Georgia for coming on two years now, I have to say that looking closely at the news report, here’s what I see:

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1. a dad who sat through a lengthy IEP meeting that in the principal’s words “kinda escalated to this”. The article says the whole meeting’s on tape. Probably lots of interesting things in there. Just what is the issue he escalated about?
2. apparently a DFCS caseworker filed an abuse complaint that opened an investigation of this father in October 2006, but the police spokesperson said there was no evidence of abuse “at all”.

This is purely conjecture here, but could it be that school personnel were the ones to get DFCS involved in the first place. And could it have been a retaliatory move. Read here.

Don’t get me wrong. If this dad (no matter whether he’s a highly educated math professor or a high school drop out) is abusing his son, I hope all the law enforcement in the state of Georgia swoops down on him and gives him the strongest of punishments possible. But, something’s fishy for sure.

How likely is it that a father who is abusing his child will also be the one to attend a lengthy IEP meeting and obviously fight for something he thought his son needed to the point of then threatening some of the team members? Wouldn’t it be more likely that he’s an advocate for his son and he’s rocking the boat?

I hope, regardless of what actually happened, we get to hear his side of the story. The only way to stop school districts from retaliating against parents (and students) is to make the situation known.

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: AdoptionBlogs Editor [Member] Email · http://editor.adoptionblogs.com
What a disturbing thought! That DFCS and educators might plot against parents advocating for their children is nothing short of disconcerting.

I hope you'll follow this story and update us.
PermalinkPermalink 08/22/07 @ 06:56
Comment from: NCOZADD@aol.com [Member] Email
It was our experience that the school's definition of "cooperation" meant that we (the parents) complied with the plans set forth by the school. But.... if we made requests based on a boatload of information, and knew our rights and responsibilities with the IEP process, we were actually able to gain a compromise that was satisfactory to all.

But one of the advantages of living in a smaller town is that almost everyone knows everyone. It would have been difficult to prove abuse charges, had they been leveled at us, especially since so many visits from the police resulting from the behaviours of our RADish resulted in being on a first-name basis with most of the police department.

You are right, this story with the professor and school just doesn't smell right, and appears to be sensationalized to a certain degree. It will be interesting to see what comes of this, should it be made public.
PermalinkPermalink 08/22/07 @ 07:25
Comment from: lmg1567 [Member] Email
Based on the article, it sounds like this father was concerned that his son was receiving "special treatment" and might kill someone. Not to jump to conclusions, but if this 17 yo special needs student did kill someone, everyone would be pointing their fingers at the parents, saying they didn't keep him under control. The school wouldn't be taking responsibility for giving him special treatment (not giving him the same consequences for bad behavior?) and it escalated to murder. I will be watching this story as well. I think all of our experiences with our troubled kids and the school system fights have made us alot more skeptical (discerning?) about what we read. I certainly don't take any story at face value anymore.
PermalinkPermalink 08/22/07 @ 08:15
Comment from: Julie [Member] Email · http://special-needs.adoptionblogs.com/
And just so readers don't think I'm totally paranoid (but highly skeptical for sure), there have been two other parents here recently who have either had truancy charges filed by the school (for trying to protect their kids from dangerous placement situations) or DFACS investigations initiated by school employees that look retaliatory.

There's a state senator looking into the prevalence of this as we speak. Knowing this, and the way our trials with the school might read in a news sound bite, prompted me to read between the lines.
PermalinkPermalink 08/22/07 @ 08:59
Comment from: getting old [Member] Email
I am one of those parents.... here in Va Beach, Va I was charged with truancy (a child neglect issue in our state) because I refused to sign a really bad IEP and refused to send my son to school where he was bullied and abused to the point he attempted sucide 3 times during last school year....

This is no joke... I actually had both my lawyer and the lawyer from the home school defense league, never to set foot in an IEP meeting again (since I gave up due to lack of funds and will just homeschool) because the next trick Va Beach City schools may pull was just that same thing (in fact they did already contact DSS on me, but I had first contacted DSS on them) because basically they let a 14 year functioning like a 4 year old run around and get treated that bad and do no school work, etc...

this is apparently happening a lot everywhere
PermalinkPermalink 08/22/07 @ 16:43
Comment from: getting old [Member] Email
oh, I did have 2 Dr and therapist, and behavioral specialist and then another Psy all agree that the placement being offered to my son would likey lead to me sucide attempts and that he needed a seperate day school

we had a pending home bound request Va Beach never honored either
PermalinkPermalink 08/22/07 @ 16:44
Comment from: Julia Fuller [Member] Email · http://special-needs.adoptionblogs.com/
One of my good friends here in Michigan was threatened with a truancy report when she refused to sign an IEP and kept her son home until they could reach an agreement.

My mother is a licensed foster parent of teen girls. Let the agency and school handle every complaint, all disipline, etc, of the girls for years just like they wanted to. When her 17yo, EI,LD who had been in her home for 6 years, was charged with misconduct, sentenced, removed from the home for a year (she's back now) guess who's fault it was? Yep, my mom received the total blame, yet she had done everything by the book, just the way they told her.
PermalinkPermalink 08/22/07 @ 19:33
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