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06/14/07

Living with OCD: Call Me Mufasa

Posted by : Julie in Parenting Children with Special Needs Blog at 09:36 pm , 367 words, 528 views  
Categories: A Day In the Life of OCD
One of the most apparent, most chronic, and sometimes most frustrating symptoms that LuLu exhibits is “getting stuck”. She is always stuck on something. Oddly enough, most of the things change periodically. Although her obsession with all things medical and with bugs have been life-long.

Her latest obsession is Lion King. And a major part of the obsession is Mufasa (Simba’s father). She wants everyone to call her Mufasa. This has become a bone of contention, mostly for Super Dad. At first I tried to discourage it, but LuLu persisted in wanting people to call her Mufasa.

All last week while we were in Philly, she introduced herself to people as Mufasa. Get this visual picture – a tall, slender Chinese girl with hair cut so short that you’re not sure if she’s a girl or boy extends her hand to shake yours and says “Call me Mufasa.” It definitely qualifies as “strange”.

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But, when the adults in the situation play along, the tensions ease. Her new teacher who is doing the Learning Breakthrough exercises with her eagerly agreed to call her Mufasa, and LuLu is delighted. Of course, now she’s obsessed and pushing for us to actually change her name…

Actually the Mufasa thing is one of the lighter sides of OCD (Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder). In some ways it's a bit like watching Monk on TV. If my addled brain can remember, it’s no big deal calling her a different name. It’s when there’s an unexpected change in plans or she gets her mind set on doing something that we just can’t do that the OCD becomes a real challenge.

Meanwhile, I know that each obsession runs its course. It may take a few weeks, or even a few months, but eventually she’ll be onto something else.

But until then, she bought a lion necklace at the Philadelphia Zoo and a Lion and cub Father’s Day card for Super Dad. And if we were wondering what to get her for her Forever Day tomorrow…well I think it’s going to be the DVD version of Lion King, since she’s nearly worn her sister’s VHS out!

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Comment from: Faith Allen [Member] Email · http://hoping.adoptionblogs.com/
Hey, Julie. I don't know if this will be helpful or not, but I will throw this out there in case it is.

In my experience talking with numerous survivors of childhood abuse, there appears to be a link between anxiety and repressed anger. I know people (all adults) who learned healthy ways to process and honor their anger and rage. As they did, their anxiety disorders, including OCD symptoms, eased dramatically.

Repressed anger has nowhere to go, so it turns on the person repressing it. The person experiences this as either anxiety or depression (or both). I don't know LuLu's history, but most children who have been traumatized have rage issues to work through. I, personally, thought that I just did not have a temper at all, but I struggled w/OCD for most of my life until I got in touch with my anger and learned how to appropriately express it.

Any time I find myself experiencing high levels of anxiety again, I do self-exploration looking for anger. In most cases, I find it. After I process the anger, the anxiety eases.

Again -- Not sure if this is helpful, but I figured sharing this couldn't hurt. :0)

- Faith
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Comment from: Julia Fuller [Member] Email · http://special-needs.adoptionblogs.com/
My 4 year old is stuck on Lion King, we've watched it every day for the past 2 weeks!
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Comment from: nancyderen [Member] Email
My daughter's OCD can be one of her more annoying issues, although Anafranil helped her a lot with the symptoms of being completely consumed by obsessions and extremely aggressive when an obsession was interrupted. Lion King was one of her obsessions for awhile, too. I also work with adults who have developmental and psych disabilities, and one of my guys always introduces himself to people as "Dr.Sobel" from the movie Analyze This. At this point we can be walking down a city street and have people in stores yelling, "Hey, Dr. Sobel!" and he is thrilled. Most people seem to get a kick out of it. It does signal to people that he needs some special consideration when they meet him!
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