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10/30/07

Special Needs Children Not Welcomed!

Posted by : Julie in Parenting Children with Special Needs Blog at 03:36 pm , 857 words, 252 views  
Categories: Due Process
“You should just post a sign at the border of your state saying children with special needs aren’t welcomed!” my friend exclaimed after I told her. We received word today that our federal appeal of our debacle of a due process hearing was dismissed and the school district (and state’s) motion was granted that our attorney is supposed to pay THEIR attorney fees.

I’m still wading through the legalese and waiting on a phone call from the attorney, but my understanding is that because we said the court was biased (ruling on things he said he wouldn’t rule on, not ruling on things in the original complaint, sleeping through testimony, etc.) and that they had violated LuLu’s civil rights (by suspending her and punishing her for behaviors related to her disability), this judge believes our attorney was frivolous, unreasonable or without foundation.

Wonders never cease. Meanwhile, as my grandfather was fond of saying “we haven’t had a dog in this fight for a while!” Even though the fight is technically about LuLu, it has grown to so much more than her. It has morphed into being about how far the “system” will go to protect themselves and to keep from providing services to severely disabled children. And I doubt that the fight is over by any means, although I am not the one doing the hand-to-hand combat.

Much of the reason we have to continue to fight is because this decision is about shutting down any options to counter the system. What has become incredibly apparent to me as I’ve watched this unfold is that people who push our system here in Georgia are set up to fail at every turn. I used to think that was paranoia talking…that there was no way that a system could be biased all the way to the top. But the evidence is starting to look otherwise.

For those not familiar with the nuts and bolts of this, under IDEA 2004, which went into effect this July, judges can now rule that attorneys of parents are liable for the cost of the school districts’ attorney fees if the case is considered “frivolous”. Here’s how it reads:

Under IDEA 2004 a court may award attorney’s fees and costs to a school district that is a prevailing party and (1) against the parent’s attorney “who files a complaint or subsequent cause of action that is frivolous, unreasonable, or without foundation, or [who] continued to litigate after the litigation clearly became frivolous, unreasonable, or without foundation; or (2) against the parent’s attorney or the parent if the parent’s complaint or subsequent cause of action was presented for any improper purpose, such as to harass, to cause unnecessary delay, or to needlessly increase the cost of litigation.” (Section 615(i)(3)(B)(i)).

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Score one for the school boards and the school district attorneys! They can get the taxpayers to pay to drag out court cases forever and not educate severely disabled children because after all, that will cost too much (right?) and then file to get their fees paid if the parents appeal the decision. And, apparently in Georgia it works. So let’s play this back and see how frivolous it sounds:
We didn’t want our traumatized child to be sent to a school where they were going to “experiment” on her 3 hours a day using known triggers while wearing protective gear. We also didn’t want her there because everyday someone gets restrained face down in the hallway and/or drug off to the isolation room. Some days that might be her and other days she would just witness it (all retraumatizing).

We DID want them to provide a speech evaluation they had written in her IEP two years prior but never provided. Then, during the trial period, when they did provide it, we wanted them to calculate the results correctly to show just how impaired her speech pragmatics were, and how much she’s impacted by her severe auditory processing deficits. Then, gasp…we had the audacity to request that they actually provide the speech services (along with OT services that she qualified for) and that they do this somewhere other than the torture chamber school.

Further we had the audacity to suggest that perhaps the decision by the judge was erroneous because he’d slept through the trial and didn’t rule on the speech issue at all (which a quick read of Wrightslaw will teach you is a huge FAPE problem) plus ruled that LuLu didn’t need medical homebound after refusing to hear testimony on it.

I’m still trying to figure out what’s frivolous about trying to protect my daughter’s right to a free appropriate public education, and to keep her from being retraumatized??? And what’s unreasonable about the expectations that a judge would actually rule on the matters brought to his court room and stay awake to do it?

I guess my friend’s right…we should be tacking those signs up along all the borders, warning people with special needs children to stay out!




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Comment from: getting old [Member] Email
the thing that is totally being ignored here.... is that the school system is the only program that the gov will provide services under for these kids... when they become adults, much better services taylored to the child's needs, wants, desires will be provided (in most areas of the country...and I am talking the MR and autistic populations... those that cannot live independently...)

Have you tried a complaint to the Fed DOE, dept of justice??? they apparently want to hear about these cases and I think since you just had a result you can still complain to them..

with my daughters I have all the options under the sun as to what to do with them for school... with my son (which I have shared) there basically is nothing more I can offer since he can't go to school...

this is what needs national attention and Dr. Phill, anyone else, behind some of us parents....

I am more than willing to go national with this...
PermalinkPermalink 10/30/07 @ 16:37
Comment from: my2rubies [Member] Email
You should run for Governor and change the laws!
PermalinkPermalink 10/31/07 @ 15:39
Comment from: getting old [Member] Email
me or Julie????

from my understanding, neither Julie's daughter or my so can go to public school, sure we could send them there... and at least in our case my son would get treated worse than dog crap day in and day out... he gets called faggot, stupid, retard, crazy, etc... daily and kicked, hit, spit on etc... daily

he is told by teachers to shut up and sit down quietly so they can teach the students who have a chance of passing the SOL tests, since he spent his first 7 years locked in a room by himself and he just didn't magically catch up... he is left to sit and rot... left far behind and forgotten

not a thing I can do about it

it was not fun going through his 3 sucide attempts last school year... I did my federally mandated civil rights things and filed complaint... and just as in Julie's case things were nit picked through, medical doctors recommendations were not read or considered or contacted.... no some ninny who once was a music teacher and took a job overseeing sped to get paid more got to decide they didn't give a crap if my son died because he cannot tolerate the way other students treat him at school

If virginia and the USA would stand up and look at their problem, they could have prevented Va Tech, if they would treat people who have disabilities like people instead of telling them to just suck it up and get over it (a lot of the time people with special needs NEED SPECIAL HELP... and this suck it up and get with the program crap does not work)

If they'd treat these kids better the kids would be more independent as adults.. and thus cost them less

PermalinkPermalink 10/31/07 @ 20:17
Comment from: Sunbonnet Sue [Member] Email
Getting Old, your boy deserves better than that. After Columbine? smart schools got on the ball! The district here implemented a district wide empathy development curriculum. It is in every classroom in every building. Additionally, kids like mine are identified as being at risk for either bullying or being bullied. They create a small program for these target kids called "circle of friends" which helps all the kids learn to model appropriate empathetic behaviors towards kids who are "different."
PermalinkPermalink 11/02/07 @ 08:27
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