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03/21/07

Teenager for Private Adoption

Posted by : Julia Fuller in Parenting Children with Special Needs Blog at 06:02 am , 446 words, 108 views  
Categories: You've Got To Be Kidding Me!
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I was browsing my normal internet adoption sites and came across one that even surprised me. An unhappy teenager (none of us have ever heard of this!) who thinks his life would be happier with a different family (I’m sure this thought has crossed the mind of every child ever born.) If only he could be the only child in a family with a mother and a father his life would be happy. I know several families with just one child, and the children are either always at my house or my children are at their houses. Ah yes, the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence and not only for the child. What parent of a rebellious or moody teenager hasn’t wondered if another family might be better suited to raise their child? What “loving” sibling hasn’t asked his parents if they could put his younger brother or sister up for adoption? When I was about five years old I clearly remember a police car pulling into our driveway and asking me if I recognized the toddler in the back seat. I assured him that I did not; he thanked me and pulled out of the driveway. I can still picture my mother running down the roads of Bristol yelling, “Bring back my baby!”

A Bond of Life Adoptions is seeking adoptive families who would be open to adopting a 13-year old boy, currently living in Louisiana. He is a healthy, bright child who is currently living with his mother. He is unhappy in his home environment and hoping that there might be a two-parent family willing to share their lives with him. He is an excellent student, very helpful and goes to church with the neighbors every Sunday. He desires a traditional family with no children, but may be open to siblings if the situation was right. He has not been in any kind of trouble with the law. He has no reported health or mental problems. His mother is relocating to a new town with her boyfriend and wants to make arrangements for her son as soon as possible. Interested families please contact Angie at 985-674-1818 or email angie@abladoptions.com. For more information please visit our website at www.abladoptions.com. http://www.abcadoptions.com/prosituations.htm

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If this agency gets many calls; I have to wonder if it will be families interesting in adopting this child or families wondering if they can also place their teenagers. (Was that too mean?) You have to understand that I’m speaking as a parent with four children going through puberty at the same time.
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Comment from: Theresa [Member] Email · http://adoptive-parenting.adoptionblogs.com/
Very timely and interesting for me - parenting many teens, but most particularly two girls right now who have had adoptions disrupt in the past and are now under the illusion that "shopping for a new family" is normal...

How in the world do I teach them that it's not okay to shop for families if situations like you mention become "the norm"?

Yikes.
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Comment from: John [Member] Email
Wow, the 13 year old sent his mother back! At least he has high standards. Cheeky devil.

Three of my boys went through disrupts, one went through two. The workers were very clear with each one, you may not get another chance. Its really amazing that an agency would buy into this. What kid doesn't have some period that they would like to change families.

I'll bet you are right Julia, most of the intrest will probably be families looking to place teenagers.

John
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