
An astute reader of
my recent blog commented that:
“…some things appear so broken that . . . where does the fixing start?”
It’s a valid question, and one that seems overwhelming to the typical parent, let alone a parent whose child has special needs. Where does the fixing start…and how do I help?
One thing is for certain in our struggles with the public school, the only person who was as unsupported and victimized by the whole ordeal as we were was LuLu’s teacher. Although my older children were dismayed at LuLu’s beloved teacher’s testimony and her apparent “selling out” (their words) since she repeatedly testified that she “didn’t remember” many things about LuLu (after being her teacher for three years), I understand. The only person who had as much to lose as we did in this situation was her. And she had to decide if she was willing to sacrifice her vocation and what was obviously for her an avocation (she is a passionate teacher).
The fixing needs to start with support for the teachers. Special education teachers very often get the short end of the stick. They lack access to the curriculum, textbooks and resources that regular ed teachers have. They are encumbered with mountains of paperwork, documenting everything. And they are often stretched beyond their areas of training or even beyond what is humanly possible by being assigned children of varying disabilities, making it nearly impossible to give each child what he/she needs. Meanwhile, they are ignored by administrators. Don’t believe me? Here’s advice one special ed teacher recently gave another on a chatboard about how to “survive” the year:
Last year I had 4 students-Mild Intellectual
disability, Specific learning disability, significant
development delay, and an EBD (Severe) thrown into the mix.
I received very limited curriculum materials, and recieved
none of the materials that other special education self-
contained teachers got because I was "cross categorical" and
none of the coordinators for the different disability
categories would touch me and my counterparts' class with a
10 ft. pole because we had multiple disability categories
in our class instead of just one. It's gotten worse this
year because I have 2 students on 30 day interims--1 student
with Autism and SDD, and another student who has moderate
intellectual disabilities and is vision impaired. At least
the county has assigned a coordinator for our cross cat
program, so hopefully we will get some help.
Make friends with the regular education grade chairs. They
can help you a lot with keeping you abreast of what they are
teaching the students, and they can help you get the
curriculum materials you need. Just be aware that they will
take care of "their" teachers first.
In addition to all of this, special ed teachers are told to fear, or at the very least, be wary of parents. The message they receive from administrators is to not tell parents anything. Any hint on the teacher’s part of a suspected learning disorder or problem mentioned to the parents automatically makes the school libel to serve the child in that area. So teachers are always under pressure NOT to tell the parents what they’re seeing. The prevailing attitude in some schools is that the teachers know what is “best” for the students and that the children wouldn’t have so many of the problems they present with, especially the behavioral ones, if the parents just parented better. Even when the classroom teacher gets to know a parent and know this is not the case, the overall culture and prevailing administrative attitude remains.
And then there’s the whole issue of retaliation against teachers who do step out and try to do the right thing for individual students. We don’t want to know this, but it does exist. In fact, I thought better of posting the link to the chatboard from where I took the above quote. This teacher stuck her neck out saying these things about her school. In many instances, just stating the truth like this can cost a teacher her job.
So, if we (the collective we) are looking for ways to fix the system –giving them the tools, resources, guidance and support to truly DO their jobs will go a long way toward fixing a lot.
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